True Darling Matrimony

True Darling Matrimony is a marriage agency that assists you in finding your dream partner with interesting dating events and matchmaking. We also help with visas and travel arrangements to find your life partner or bring couples together.

Our Services


Find your dream partner
with our Matchmaking Service

Pick a Partner or get Personalized Suggestions. Click on apply below (not binding), fill out the questionnaire, and start to find your partner.

  • Background Checks

  • Personal Support

  • Internat. Reach

  • Professional Ethics


Premium
348.95 €
Einmalzahlung
Dauer: 1 Monat
  • Durchsuchen unserer Profile und Kontaktaufnahme zu allen unseren Klienten möglich
  • Dauerhafte Aufnahme in unsere Datenbank – interessierte Klienten können jederzeit mit Ihnen Kontakt aufnehmen
  • Profilüberprüfung
  • ID-Überprüfung
  • Hintergrund­überprüfung
  • Persönliche Betreuung
  • Persönliche Beratung
Standard
198.95 €
Einmalzahlung
Dauer: 1 Monat
  • Durchsuchen unserer Profile und Kontaktaufnahme zu 1 Klienten oder 1 Partnervorschlag
  • Dauerhafte Aufnahme in unsere Datenbank – interessierte Klienten können jederzeit mit Ihnen Kontakt aufnehmen
  • Profilüberprüfung
  • ID-Überprüfung
  • Hintergrund­überprüfung
  • Persönliche Betreuung
  • Persönliche Beratung
Lite
118.95 €
Einmalzahlung
Dauer: 1 Monat
  • Durchsuchen unserer Profile und Kontaktaufnahme zu 1 Klienten oder 1 Partnervorschlag
  • Dauerhafte Aufnahme in unsere Datenbank – interessierte Klienten können jederzeit mit Ihnen Kontakt aufnehmen
  • Profilüberprüfung
  • ID-Überprüfung
  • Hintergrund­überprüfung
Extra Lite
58.95 €
Einmalzahlung
Dauer: unbegrenzt
  • Durchsuchen unserer Datenbank – Kontaktaufnahme zu Klienten nicht möglich
  • Dauerhafte Aufnahme in unsere Datenbank – interessierte Klienten können jederzeit mit Ihnen Kontakt aufnehmen
  • Profilüberprüfung
  • ID-Überprüfung
  • Hintergrund­überprüfung

About Our Agency

True Darling Matrimony is a marriage agency that faithfully assists you in finding a compatible partner that matches you as a person with your unique interests, standards, and character traits. For you to be successful in this highly important endeavor, we use effective dating events, personalized matchmaking, and offer you support with care und understanding. We also help with visas and travel arrangements to find a compatible partner for you or bring international couples together.

“Find a matchmaker, not a dating app! Because the dating app is the complicated left-brain solution to the right-brain complex problem that's love. You need another human that's going to help you with yours” (Arthur Brooks). Image: fiancée and myself (2025).


MIssion and Business Philosophy

Our mission at True Darling Matrimony is to guide individuals on the path toward committed and harmonious relationships that are grounded in ethics and actual compatibility. To facilitate success in that, we offer and rely on:
  • Tailored Matchmaking

  • Background Checks

  • Personal Support

  • International Clients

  • Professional Ethics

  • Visa Service

  • Travel Arrangements

  • Dating Events

As a former Buddhist monk of over seven years and a practitioner of Buddhism for nearly two decades, I personally place a strong emphasis and value on morality and compassion in all my business and private endeavors. Our matrimonial bureau therefore underscores the following as part of our business philosophy:
  • high ethical standards: We are upfront and honest, committed to provide you with actual value and a satisfying experience

  • fair, competitive, and transparent pricing: what we offer and charge is in plain sight – no hidden fees, no tactics

  • high level of discretion regarding the personal information you share with us.


About the Founder

Warm greetings! My name is Bela-Raphael Bengs, born in 1987 near Bremen, Germany, and I am the founder of True Darling Matrimony. Drawing from years of spiritual training and deep ethical commitment, I previously lived as a Theravāda Buddhist monk (monastic name and description: Ṭhānu­ttamo Bhikkhu) during two monastic periods, first from 2016 to 2023, and again from 2024 to 2025.
I spent my time in respected monasteries across Europe and Asia – including Malaysia, Myanmar, and Sri Lanka – dedicated to the study and practice of early Buddhist teachings. Having familiarized myself with Pāḷi and the core Buddhist scriptures, I emphasize mindfulness, integrity, and compassion in my professional and private values and undertakings.

With a strong foundation in ethical living and intercultural understanding, I assist individuals in forming meaningful, long-term relationships with a compatible life partner.

For several years prior to my first ordination, I have been studying and practicing the Buddha’s teaching for about three years in retreat and in various monasteries throughout Europe and Asia. I first encountered the Buddha’s teachings in 2007, at the age of 20.

Contact

If you have any questions, comments, or general inquiries about our services, feel free to reach out. We'll respond as soon as possible.

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Matchmaking

Click on apply below (not binding), fill out the questionnaire, and start to find your partner.
You are on the right track of finding a partner that fits your unique personality and interests. On this page, you can get an overview of the different plans we offer, together with details about what they include. We personally support you and provide you with access to an international client base. Our emphasis lies on professional ethics with fully transparent pricing – no hidden fees.

Click here for information on the exact process and the methods we use.

Matchmaking Plans

Premium
348.95 €
Payment: One-time
Runtime: 1 Month
  • Initiate Contact to all of our Clients Freely explore our database to find suitable matches and initiate contact as much as you want. If you wish, we can also suggest one candidate for you, based upon our personalized selection and matchmaking process.
  • Permanent Inclusion Into our Database Receive potentially unlimited contact inquiries from other clients that are interested in you. They may choose you because of your permanent visibility in our database.
  • Personal Support Feel free to contact us weekly via voice call or e-mail to ask general questions related to your matchmaking experience with us or to request mediation between you and your match.
  • Profile Reviews To ensure compatibility between our clients within our matchmaking service, we carefully review each profile and highlight the most important features for your ease.
  • Identification Checks We personally verify the identity from all of our clients to forestall the creation of fake profiles and to ensure safety and convenience for all people involved.
  • Background Checks All of our clients submit a certificate of good conduct so that you and all of our clients can engage in our services with confidence.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Standard
198.95 €
Payment: One-time
Runtime: 1 Month
  • Pick 1 Partner or get 1 Suggestion Freely explore our database to find a suitable match and initiate contact. If you wish, we can alternatively suggest one candidate for you, based on our personalized selection and matchmaking process.
  • Permanent Inclusion Into our Database Receive potentially unlimited contact inquiries from other clients that are interested in you. They may choose you because of your permanent visibility in our database.
  • Personal Support Feel free to contact us weekly via voice call or e-mail to ask general questions related to your matchmaking experience with us or to request mediation between you and your match.
  • Profile Reviews To ensure compatibility between our clients within our matchmaking service, we carefully review each profile and highlight the most important features for your ease.
  • Identification Checks We personally verify the identity from all of our clients to forestall the creation of fake profiles and to ensure safety and convenience for all people involved.
  • Background Checks All of our clients submit a certificate of good conduct so that you and all of our clients can engage in our services with confidence.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Lite
118.95 €
Payment: One-time
Runtime: 1 Month
  • Pick 1 Partner or get 1 Suggestion Freely explore our database to find a suitable match and initiate contact. If you wish, we can alternatively suggest one candidate for you, based on our personalized selection and matchmaking process.
  • Permanent Inclusion Into our Database Receive potentially unlimited contact inquiries from other clients that are interested in you. They may choose you because of your permanent visibility in our database.
  • Profile Reviews To ensure compatibility between our clients within our matchmaking service, we carefully review each profile and highlight the most important features for your ease.
  • Identification Checks We personally verify the identity from all of our clients to forestall the creation of fake profiles and to ensure safety and convenience for all people involved.
  • Background Checks All of our clients submit a certificate of good conduct so that you and all of our clients can engage in our services with confidence.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Extra Lite
58.95 €
Payment: One-time
Runtime: 1 Month
  • Permanent Inclusion Into our Profile-Database Receive potentially unlimited contact inquiries from other clients that are interested in you. They may choose you because of your permanent visibility in our database.
  • Profile Reviews To ensure compatibility between our clients within our matchmaking service, we carefully review each profile and highlight the most important features for your overview.
  • Identification Checks We personally verify the identity from all of our clients to forestall the creation of fake profiles and to ensure safety and convenience for all people involved.
  • Background Checks All of our clients submit a certificate of good conduct so that you and all of our clients can engage in our services with confidence and ease.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)

Procedure

If you click any of the “apply” buttons above, you will be led on to a questionnaire. The information that you provide there help us understand your preferences so that we can highlight them in the creation of your visible profile and suggest clients to you. It will also require that you upload a salary slip, a certificate of good conduct, and an ID card together with your face on it (both your face and the ID card must be visible). We ask for these documents in order to ensure the comfort and safety of all our clients. At this stage, no contract has been established, and you can easily terminate the whole process at no cost for you. Even submitting the completely filled-out questionnaire/application is not binding. However, after reviewing your submission, we will send you an email, informing you about a final approval or rejection of your application.
The contract, as outlined in the Terms and Conditions, starts after the e-mail that confirms your application has been sent by us, received by you, and sent back to us with the confirmed data as per the e-mail. Successful payment is necessary for us to start our part of the agreement as specified in the Terms and Conditions. It is also necessary that you expressly agree to these Terms and Conditions, the Privacy Policy, and the Right of Withdrawal Policy by ticking the relevant checkbox as found in the questionnaire.

A real relationship requires bravery from both sides. ... Exceptional relationships are not found. They’re built (Matthew Hussey).

After that, True Darling Matrimony will get to work in finding a match for you with a potential candidate sourced from an international client base – all via careful manual review and consideration of factors that best ensure compatibility between the two of you. Before we establish the actual contact between the two of you in person or via online means (such as e-mail, voice or video calls), the other person has to agree to it and confirm interest as well. Then, you can freely and unrestrictedly contact our client on your own, according to the wish of you both. However, we can stay in touch to follow up on your journey and also assist you in visa, travel, or translation matters (all as outlined in our Terms and Conditions).

Visa Agency

Our visa assistance service is launching soon. We’ll help clients navigate complex visa processes with ease – including tourist, marriage, and long-term stay visas. Our guidance will cover paperwork, appointments, translations, and up-to-date requirements to make cross-border relationships stress-free.

Travel Agency

Coming soon: custom travel planning for meaningful journeys. From international flights to local accommodations, our travel services will offer hand-picked options tailored to relationship-focused travel. We aim to simplify bookings, manage itineraries, and support culturally sensitive travel experiences – all with reliability and care.

Date Facilitation

Date facilitation services are in preparation. We plan to offer thoughtful coordination of in-person meetings – from choosing venues to providing interpreters or chaperones when needed. Our goal is to create a safe, respectful, and natural environment for meaningful connections to grow.

Event Planning

Professional event planning is forthcoming. Whether it is speed dating events or regular dates, family introductions, or weddings, we organize every detail – locations, catering, and logistics – to ensure a warm and memorable occasion for all involved.

Privacy Policy

1. Responsible Party

The responsible entity for data processing on this website is:

True Darling Matrimony
Bela-Raphael Bengs
Hauptstraße 2
69434 Hirschhorn (Neckar)
Germany

2. Data Processing and Services Used

Our website is hosted on Carrd (Carrd, Inc.). When you access the website, Carrd automatically processes technical information (such as IP address, browser type, date and time of access) in server log files to ensure stability and security. We also use Carrd’s integrated basic analytics to monitor visitor numbers and traffic trends. These analytics do not use cookies or tracking technologies; only aggregated data (such as total page views and referrers) are available to us. While technical data such as IP addresses are processed temporarily on Carrd’s servers to provide this service, they are not accessible to us in identifiable form.

For applications, we use forms provided by Fillout (Fillout, Inc.). When you submit a form, your entries and technical metadata (such as submission time) are processed by Fillout and transmitted to us. Depending on configuration, Fillout may use necessary cookies (e.g., for spam protection). If you open the form on Fillout’s own domain (redirect), cookie handling and privacy information are provided directly by Fillout. Please see Fillout’s privacy policy here: https://fillout.com/privacy.

Form submissions are further processed using Make (Celonis SE / Make.com), an automation platform that enables us to handle form data (e.g., sending confirmations or notifications). Make processes this data on our behalf in accordance with our instructions. Make may use necessary cookies or technical data for its operation. If you interact with Make on its own platform or domain, cookie handling and privacy information are provided directly by Make. Please refer to Make’s privacy policy here: https://www.make.com/en/privacy-policy.

Payments are processed securely via Stripe (Stripe, Inc. / Stripe Payments Europe, Ltd.) and PayPal. These providers act as independent data controllers for payment data. We do not store or have access to your full payment information. Stripe and PayPal may use necessary cookies or technical data for their operation. If you interact with Stripe or PayPal on their own platforms or domains, cookie handling and privacy information are provided directly by them. Please refer to their privacy policies:

When you contact us via the contact form, we collect:

  • — First and last name
  • — Email address
  • — Phone number
  • — Your message

Your personal data is stored securely on our encrypted local hard drive, within Microsoft OneDrive cloud services (which comply with GDPR), and in our email account with encryption during transmission and storage. Access is restricted to authorized personnel only. We retain your personal data only as long as necessary to process your inquiry, maintain communication, or comply with legal obligations. Payment data retention may be longer to meet accounting, tax, and legal requirements. We do not share your personal data with third parties unless required by law or with your explicit consent.

3. Legal Basis for Processing

Contact form and form submissions via Fillout and Make are processed based on our legitimate interest (Art. 6(1)(f) GDPR) in secure, stable, and efficient website operation and to handle your inquiries. Payment data and any form submissions necessary to enter into a service contract are processed as necessary to fulfill a contract or take steps prior to entering into a contract (Art. 6(1)(b) GDPR).

4. Analytics

We use Carrd’s built-in basic analytics to monitor visitor counts and traffic trends. These analytics do not use cookies or tracking technologies. Only aggregated, non-identifiable data such as page views and referrers are visible to us. Technical data (e.g. IP addresses) may be processed temporarily on Carrd’s servers but are not accessible to us in identifiable form.

5. Data Retention

We retain your personal data only as long as necessary to process your inquiry, maintain communication, or comply with legal obligations. Payment data retention may be longer to meet accounting, tax, and legal requirements.

6. Your Rights

You have the right to:

  • — Request access to your personal data
  • — Request correction or deletion of your data
  • — Object to data processing
  • — Request restriction of processing
  • — Data portability
  • — Withdraw consent at any time (where consent is the basis)
  • — File a complaint with a data protection authority

To exercise your rights, contact us at [email protected].

7. Security Measures

We take appropriate technical and organizational measures to protect your data, including encryption, access controls, and regular security updates. However, no system can guarantee 100% security.

8. Changes to this Privacy Policy

We may update this policy occasionally. The current version is always available on our website.

9. Contact

For any questions regarding data protection, please contact:

True Darling Matrimony
Bela-Raphael Bengs
Hauptstraße 2
69434 Hirschhorn (Neckar)
Germany

Phone: +49 176 32679807
Email: [email protected]

Terms and Conditions

1. Scope and Formation of the Contract

These Terms and Conditions govern all agreements between True-Darling Matrimony (hereinafter, “Provider”) and the Customer in connection with the matchmaking and other services offered through this website.

A binding contract between the Provider and the Customer is formed only when the Provider confirms acceptance of the Customer’s online application in writing or electronically, the Customer reconfirms the data contained in that acceptance by returning a confirmation e-mail to the Provider, and the Customer expressly agrees to these Terms and Conditions, the Privacy Policy, and the Right of Withdrawal Policy by ticking the relevant checkbox.

Until these steps are completed, the Customer’s registration and application remain non-binding. Once the contract has been validly formed, the statutory right of withdrawal does not apply. From that point onward, the Customer is obliged to pay the fees set out under section 2 below via the available payment methods (Stripe, PayPal, or German payment systems such as Sofortüberweisung). The Provider will not begin providing services until full payment has been received. Exceptions are occasional free offers, which do not require monetary compensation.

2. Services, Duration, and Fees

The Provider offers matchmaking services under different plans. You can revoke your inclusion into the profile database at any time or object to it at the outset. Note that before actual contact between two clients in person or via online means can be established, both have to agree to it and confirm interest. All prices are quoted in euros and are inclusive of VAT.

Extra Lite — 58.95 € (one-time fee)

Service duration: unlimited. This plan provides permanent inclusion in our profile database, ensuring unlimited potential contact inquiries from other clients who may choose you because of your lasting visibility. You may browse our profile database but cannot contact clients directly. Each profile is carefully reviewed to ensure compatibility and quality. For safety and authenticity, we verify each client’s identity and require a certificate of good conduct, ensuring that all participants can use the service with confidence and trust.

Lite — 118.95 € (one-time fee)

Service duration: one month. This plan allows you to either select one partner from our profile database or receive one suggested match based on our personalized selection and matchmaking process. You may freely explore the profile database to find a suitable match and initiate contact. Your profile will be permanently included in our profile database, enabling you to receive potentially unlimited contact inquiries from other clients who may choose you due to your lasting visibility. To ensure compatibility and quality, all profiles are carefully reviewed, every client’s identity is verified, and all participants submit a certificate of good conduct, creating a safe and trustworthy environment for everyone using our services.

Standard — 198.95 € (one-time fee)

Service duration: one month. This plan allows you to either select one partner from our profile database or receive one suggested match based on our personalized selection and matchmaking process. You may freely explore the profile database to find a suitable match and initiate contact. Your profile will be permanently included in our profile database, enabling you to receive unlimited contact inquiries from other clients who may choose you due to your lasting visibility. Personal support is available weekly via voice call or e-mail for general questions about your matchmaking experience or for mediation between you and your match. To ensure compatibility, quality, and safety, all profiles are carefully reviewed, each client’s identity is verified, and a certificate of good conduct is required from every participant, creating a secure and trustworthy matchmaking environment for all.

Premium — 348.95 € (one-time fee)

Service duration: one month. This plan allows you to freely explore our profile database, find suitable matches, and initiate contact with other clients without limitation. Upon request, we can also suggest one candidate based on our personalized selection and matchmaking process. Your profile will remain permanently included in our profile database, allowing you to receive unlimited contact inquiries from other clients who may choose you because of your lasting visibility. We provide ongoing personal support, enabling you to contact us weekly via voice call or e-mail for general questions about your matchmaking experience or for mediation between you and your match. To ensure quality, compatibility, and safety, all profiles are carefully reviewed, every client’s identity is personally verified, and each participant must submit a certificate of good conduct, ensuring a trustworthy and secure matchmaking environment for all.

3. Liability

The Provider does not guarantee that a successful match or partnership will result from the services. Matches are based on the information provided by the customer, which cannot be fully verified.

In the event of a legal dispute — including but not limited to late payment, unlawful chargebacks, or breach of contract — the losing party shall reimburse the prevailing party for all reasonable legal and administrative costs incurred in enforcing or defending the contract.

This may include documented time spent by the prevailing party, charged at 50 € per hour, provided the time is reasonably connected to the dispute. This provision applies equally to both parties. For consumer contracts, this clause shall apply only to the extent permitted under applicable consumer protection law.

4. Data Protection

The Provider processes personal data in accordance with the Privacy Policy and in compliance with the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR).

5. Final Provisions

This contract is governed by the laws of the Federal Republic of Germany. The place of jurisdiction is the Provider’s registered office. If any provision of these Terms and Conditions is held invalid, the remaining provisions shall remain in effect.

Right of Withdrawal