True Darling Matrimony

True Darling Matrimony is a marriage agency that faithfully assists you in finding a compatible partner with effective dating events and personalized matchmaking. We can also help with visas and travel arrangements that help you find a compatible partner or bring international couples together (for details, click the links).

Our Services


Find a compatible partner with our Matchmaking Service:

  • Handpicked Matches

  • Background Checks

  • Personal Support

  • International Clients

  • Professional Ethics

Extra Lite
119 €
One-time
  • 1 Handpicked Match
  • Profile Review
  • Background Check
APPLY
Premium
1,559 €
One-time
  • 12 Handpicked Matches
  • Priority Matchmaking
  • 1 Facilitated Meeting
  • Prior Consultation
  • Follow-Up Support
  • Profile Review
  • Background Check
APPLY
Standard
449 €
One-time
  • 3 Handpicked Matches
  • Prior Consultation
  • Follow-Up Support
  • Profile Review
  • Background Check
APPLY

About Our Agency

As a former Buddhist monk of over seven years and a practitioner of Buddhism for nearly two decades, I personally place a strong emphasis and value on morality and compassion in all my business and private endeavors. Our matrimonial bureau therefore underscores the following as part of our business philosophy:
  • high ethical standards

  • fair and transparent pricing (no hidden fees)

  • high level of discretion regarding the personal information you share with us.

“Find a matchmaker, not a dating app! Because the dating app is the complicated left-brain solution to the right-brain complex problem that's love. You need another human that's going to help you with yours” (Arthur Brooks).


MIssion

Our mission at True Darling Matrimony is to guide individuals on the path toward committed and harmonious relationships that are grounded in ethics and actual compatibility. To facilitate success in that, we offer and fall back on:
  • Tailored Matchmaking

  • Background Checks

  • Personal Support

  • International Reach

  • Professional Ethics


About the Founder

Warm greetings! My name is Bela-Raphael Bengs, born in 1987 near Bremen, Germany, and I am the founder of True Darling Matrimony. Drawing from years of spiritual training and deep ethical commitment, I previously lived as a Theravāda Buddhist monk (monastic name and description: Ṭhānuttamo Bhikkhu) during two monastic periods, first from 2016 to 2023, and again from 2024 to 2025.
I spent my time in respected monasteries across Europe and Asia – including Malaysia, Myanmar, and Sri Lanka – dedicated to the study and practice of early Buddhist teachings. Having familiarized myself with Pāḷi and the core Buddhist scriptures, I emphasize mindfulness, integrity, and compassion in my professional and private values and undertakings.

With a strong foundation in ethical living and intercultural understanding, I assist individuals in forming meaningful, long-term relationships with a compatible life partner.

For several years prior to my first ordination, I have been studying and practicing the Buddha’s teaching for about three years in retreat and in various monasteries throughout Europe and Asia. I first encountered the Buddha’s teachings in 2007, at the age of 20.

Contact

If you have any questions, comments, or general inquiries about our services, feel free to reach out. We'll respond as soon as possible.

Matchmaking Plans

In order to ensure your safety and comfort throughout the whole process and beyond, we run background and identity checks of all clients that use our matchmaking service, offer personal support and international reach, and emphasize professional ethics with fully transparent pricing (without hidden fees).

Extra Lite
119 €
One-time
  • Service runtime: max. 1 month
  • 1 Handpicked Match
  • 1 Identification Call
  • Background Check
  • Note: In the event that both matches want to meet either online or in person, there is an extra charge of 30 €.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Lite
159 €
One-time
  • Service runtime: max. 1 month
  • 1 Handpicked Match
  • Voice Consultation (max. 20 min)
  • 1 Identification Call
  • 1 Follow-Up via SMS, E-Mail, WhatsApp, etc.
  • Background Check
  • Note: In the event that both matches want to meet either online or in person, there is an extra charge of 30 €.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Standard
449 €
One-time
  • Service runtime: max. 3 months
  • Up to 3 Handpicked Matches
  • Voice Consultation (max. 20 min)
  • 1 Identification Call
  • Up to 3 Follow-Ups via SMS, E-Mail, WhatsApp, etc.
  • Background Check
  • Note: In the event that both matches want to meet either online or in person, there is an extra charge of 30 €.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Standard Plus
849 €
One-time
  • Service runtime: max. 3 months
  • Up to 6 Handpicked Matches
  • Voice Consultation (max. 20 min)
  • 1 Identification Call
  • Up to 6 Follow-Ups via SMS, E-Mail, WhatsApp, etc.
  • Background Check
  • Note: In the event that both matches want to meet either online or in person, there is an extra charge of 30 €.
APPLY (NOT BINDING)
Premium
1,559 €
One-time
  • Service runtime: max. 3 months
  • Priority Matchmaking
  • Up to 12 Handpicked Matches
  • Voice Consultation (max. 20 min)
  • 1 Identification Call
  • 1 Facilitated Meeting
  • Up to 12 Follow-Ups via SMS, E-Mail, WhatsApp, etc.
  • Background Check
  • Note: In the event that both matches want to meet either online or in person, there is an extra charge of 30 € upon a first facilitated meeting with a second match (a meeting with the first match comes free with this plan).
APPLY (NOT BINDING)

Visa Agency

Our visa assistance service is launching soon. We’ll help clients navigate complex visa processes with ease – including tourist, marriage, and long-term stay visas. Our guidance will cover paperwork, appointments, translations, and up-to-date requirements to make cross-border relationships stress-free.

Travel Agency

Coming soon: custom travel planning for meaningful journeys. From international flights to local accommodations, our travel services will offer hand-picked options tailored to relationship-focused travel. We aim to simplify bookings, manage itineraries, and support culturally sensitive travel experiences – all with reliability and care.

Date Facilitation

Date facilitation services are in preparation. We plan to offer thoughtful coordination of in-person meetings – from choosing venues to providing interpreters or chaperones when needed. Our goal is to create a safe, respectful, and natural environment for meaningful connections to grow.

Event Planning

Professional event planning is forthcoming. Whether it's a regular or speed dating event, family introductions, or weddings, we’ll help organize every detail – locations, catering, and logistics – to ensure a warm and memorable occasion for all involved.

Privacy Policy

1. Responsible Party

The responsible entity for data processing on this website is:

True Darling Matrimony
Bela-Raphael Bengs
Hauptstraße 2
69434 Hirschhorn (Neckar)
Germany

2. Data Processing and Services Used

Our website is hosted on Carrd (Carrd, Inc.). When you access the website, Carrd automatically processes technical information (such as IP address, browser type, date and time of access) in server log files to ensure stability and security. We also use Carrd’s integrated basic analytics to monitor visitor numbers and traffic trends. These analytics do not use cookies or tracking technologies; only aggregated data (such as total page views and referrers) are available to us. While technical data such as IP addresses are processed temporarily on Carrd’s servers to provide this service, they are not accessible to us in identifiable form.

For applications, we use forms provided by Fillout (Fillout, Inc.). When you submit a form, your entries and technical metadata (such as submission time) are processed by Fillout and transmitted to us. Depending on configuration, Fillout may use necessary cookies (e.g., for spam protection). If you open the form on Fillout’s own domain (redirect), cookie handling and privacy information are provided directly by Fillout. Please see Fillout’s privacy policy here: https://fillout.com/privacy.

Form submissions are further processed using Make (Celonis SE / Make.com), an automation platform that enables us to handle form data (e.g., sending confirmations or notifications). Make processes this data on our behalf in accordance with our instructions. Make may use necessary cookies or technical data for its operation. If you interact with Make on its own platform or domain, cookie handling and privacy information are provided directly by Make. Please refer to Make’s privacy policy here: https://www.make.com/en/privacy-policy.

Payments are processed securely via Stripe (Stripe, Inc. / Stripe Payments Europe, Ltd.) and PayPal. These providers act as independent data controllers for payment data. We do not store or have access to your full payment information. Stripe and PayPal may use necessary cookies or technical data for their operation. If you interact with Stripe or PayPal on their own platforms or domains, cookie handling and privacy information are provided directly by them. Please refer to their privacy policies:

When you contact us via the contact form, we collect:

  • — First and last name
  • — Email address
  • — Phone number
  • — Your message

Your personal data is stored securely on our encrypted local hard drive, within Microsoft OneDrive cloud services (which comply with GDPR), and in our email account with encryption during transmission and storage. Access is restricted to authorized personnel only. We retain your personal data only as long as necessary to process your inquiry, maintain communication, or comply with legal obligations. Payment data retention may be longer to meet accounting, tax, and legal requirements. We do not share your personal data with third parties unless required by law or with your explicit consent.

3. Legal Basis for Processing

Contact form and form submissions via Fillout and Make are processed based on our legitimate interest (Art. 6(1)(f) GDPR) in secure, stable, and efficient website operation and to handle your inquiries. Payment data and any form submissions necessary to enter into a service contract are processed as necessary to fulfill a contract or take steps prior to entering into a contract (Art. 6(1)(b) GDPR).

4. Analytics

We use Carrd’s built-in basic analytics to monitor visitor counts and traffic trends. These analytics do not use cookies or tracking technologies. Only aggregated, non-identifiable data such as page views and referrers are visible to us. Technical data (e.g. IP addresses) may be processed temporarily on Carrd’s servers but are not accessible to us in identifiable form.

5. Data Retention

We retain your personal data only as long as necessary to process your inquiry, maintain communication, or comply with legal obligations. Payment data retention may be longer to meet accounting, tax, and legal requirements.

6. Your Rights

You have the right to:

  • — Request access to your personal data
  • — Request correction or deletion of your data
  • — Object to data processing
  • — Request restriction of processing
  • — Data portability
  • — Withdraw consent at any time (where consent is the basis)
  • — File a complaint with a data protection authority

To exercise your rights, contact us at [email protected].

7. Security Measures

We take appropriate technical and organizational measures to protect your data, including encryption, access controls, and regular security updates. However, no system can guarantee 100% security.

8. Changes to this Privacy Policy

We may update this policy occasionally. The current version is always available on our website.

9. Contact

For any questions regarding data protection, please contact:

True Darling Matrimony
Bela-Raphael Bengs
Hauptstraße 2
69434 Hirschhorn (Neckar)
Germany

Phone: +49 176 32679807
Email: [email protected]